It is a fortunate thing that you have both or one of your parents alive. As an elder child, you fell in some responsibility to talk to them about their end-of-life issues and wishes. It is not easy to talk about dying and death to your parents especially, but these are pretty serious and important conversations. They can help you in getting peace of mind.
You may think there were many awkward chats you had with your parents when you were growing up but now that you are an adult, the most uncomfortable and awkward conversation would be about asking them their end-of-life issues and concerns. For the parents’ wishes, you need them to have the right legal and financial paperwork in place. Once you know what they want, things get easier for you. Here are a few important questions that you can ask your parents.
Question 1: Do You Have any Will?
Will is important as it is the future of everything that a person has. It is not just about the property or money but also the mementos and pets. If someone dies without any will, the estate of that person is divided by court. They decide where and to whom everything will go. Even verbal wishes cannot be accepted by the court.
So, for bringing this question up, you can start with the line that I do not want to disturb you but if something happens to you, where would you like to honor all your belongings? Do you have any will? If they say yes, then you can proceed with the process. Many people meet with an attorney for drawing up the will. In a couple of sessions, they can write down about everything and all the beneficiaries as well.
Question 2: Do you have Power of Attorney?
Power of attorney is the designation that makes another person legal and able to make a financial decision especially when a person is in the condition of not doing it by himself. In absence of any paperwork, the spouse or elder child is considered as the default power of attorney.
For bringing this up, you can say that I am nominating someone to make decisions on my behalf when I am not able to, and I am getting the paperwork done for that. It would be great if you did the same for yourself as well. If they agree then you can start the process. The best option is to bring in a lawyer for the power of attorney process. Within two to three appointments, you can get it done.
Question 3: Do you have Healthcare Directives?
Advanced healthcare directives are a set of healthcare orders. It includes a living will which has the instructions for your possessions, a health proxy for appointing someone else for making health-related decisions when someone is not able to, and a HIPAA release where the person allows another one to access the medical records that are useful for making insurance claims.
Clear instruction is written can make the families secure and prevents them from getting involved in arguments or lawsuits.
In order to bring that up to your parents, you can ask that if there comes a time when you are on life support then it would not be easier for me. But in that time, you would not be able to make any decision for you so if you want you can talk about how to feel about that time and what do you want for that time. And for the ease of both of use, you can put your wishes in writing.
Healthcare directives are different for different regions. You can get the specific one from the state office and proceed further.
Question 4: Do You have an Authorized User on Your Investment or Bank Accounts?
In case of incompetence or death, an account holder’s family may need money for making arrangements like a nursing home, medical care, or funeral arrangements. A straight and simple way of keeping the money of your parents being tied up in validation process is to nominate a family member as a co-owner of the accounts. This helps in withdrawing, depositing, and closing an account.
For initiating this conversation, you can say Dad! I am not willing to take your money at all but for sometimes, we need a few documents in line for handling your finances. Can we talk about it? After the discussion, you can visit the bank for paperwork with your parents and make the process done within an hour.
Question 5: Do you have any thoughts about Long-Term Care Insurance?
Many long-term living expenses are not covered by any government and they are quite costly. Long-term healthcare insurance includes anything from an extended home assistance to a nursing home. Costs of long-term insurances are climbing on daily basis.
For bringing this point, you can ask by saying I read about the costs of assisted living and it is increasing annually. I was stunned and I want the best care for you if it ever comes to you. Have you thought about insurance for that? if they say yes, then you can initiate the process. You can see what long-term care insurance policies make sense to you for your parents. With the health insurance, coverage varies with the policies. You have to figure out that which is the best for you and suits the financial position of yours.
Final Words
Losing parents is not easier for anyone. You can never replace your parents with anything else in the whole world, but the truth is, they are going to die one day. They might live for 100 years, but in the end, you have to accept this reality. They are the people who are the sincerest ones for you and as children, you should also be sincere with them. Here we have discussed the possible ways that you can explore to ask your parents about their end-life issues and wishes.
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It is a bare branch with no branches or leaves. However, the surface of the entire spirit tree is covered with blue scales, which are faintly shiny.If you can pass the Hundred Ghost Picture and have a chance to see Baimei Ghost King, you must take me with you.
Qingyang said, Your great grandfather did a good job.He planned to kill them. He had told these two people what had happened for thirty years before and needed them to go back for questioning.
The distance was not worth mentioning to Qingyang now, and it only took seven or eight days to arrive.Because of Hun Su s previous introduction, Qingyang was familiar with these situations.
Once the city is destroyed, the entire Funiu County will suffer, so anyone can Follow the arrangements, no one is exempt.hoping to overthrow the Blood Demon Sect and restore the prosperity of the Immortal Sect.
The effect of the blood spell is going to disappear.Such a big movement had already alarmed the other monks in the City Lord s Mansion.
Jun, instead smiled awkwardly at Qingyang and said That
Taoist friend Qingyang
I have offended you so much just now. I am here to apologize to you for them.In the huge city, Qingyang first sent the iron armed monkey back to the Drunken Immortal Gourd, and then used the Breath Condensation Technique to adjust his cultivation to the fifth level of the Golden Core, and then headed towards the Jiuxian City.
They could even do two things at once, controlling the Wind Gourd at home.However, after thinking carefully, he couldn t remember who the woman was or when he knew such a ghost nun.
This was really bad luck. A broken leg had a big impact on his strength, but this was his territory, how could he be scared away by a group of human monks The prey that you finally caught Wouldn t it be a pity to just let him go The fourth level forest piercing beast felt that it could still fight, so it rolled aside and secretly looked for opportunities to attack.
True Lord Crouching Tiger leaves Crouching Tiger City.Under his instigation, the other monks were also ready to take action.
The big ones are as thick as a water tank, and the small ones are as thick as wooden barrels.Now that Qingyang s strength has increased, his ability to judge the cultivation level of Yuanying monks has become stronger and stronger.
Only by using the Three Yuan Sword Formation in time could he block the previous attack.Moreover, the influence of the One horned Ghost King was still there, so everyone did not change their stance immediately, but decided to first Look at the situation and wait until the situation becomes clear.
However, with Qingyang s current strength, ordinary problems cannot trouble him, and the journey is relatively smooth.If he were not careful, life would be ruined and the entire Crouching Tiger City would be destroyed.
If they want to get their money back, it depends on how much they can get back from the final birthday banquet
And the Long Eyebrow Ghost King was not too stingy after receiving so many gifts.So it seems that it doesn t matter if Zhenjun Chiye has some small rules.
The reason for the levy is because the monsters are coming to attack our Funiu County to purchase war supplies.However, they didn t expect that there was a sudden turn of events.
Qingyang s cultivation has at least completed the foundation building, right It will definitely not be a problem to deal with these blood clothed men.Qin Ruyan and Kou Yuchang didn t know whether Elder Wusi had been eyeing them from the beginning and was just waiting to come over now to reap the rewards, or whether he accidentally broke into the relationship between the two of them, but in any case, such a high level Blood Lotus Root , is also extremely tempting to the Golden elixir monks, and Elder Wusi and others will definitely not let it go.
And the battles not only take place inside and outside the city walls, there are battlefields in the air, underground, and throughout Funiu City.If True Lord Qingyan refused to come forward, wouldn t the Yang family be doomed He quickly said Lord City Lord, no, you can t abandon our Yang family.
He couldn t bear to cause harm, perhaps because he felt that Master Guixia was no longer a threat to him.If this situation continues, the gap between the two sides will only become wider and wider, and I will never be able to catch up with the other party.
Therefore, there is no good or bad technique. The key lies in whether the person who uses it is evil.There are three main things left to do. One is to deal with the captured Blood Demon Sect monks, and the other is to clean up the remnants of the Blood Demon Sect.
If those are included, it will be even more amazing.Instead, he asked Qingyan about the Hundred Ghosts.
The man in blood clothes said coldly If you still don t explain, next time it won t be as simple as just breaking off an arm.
Instead, they became more ferocious, with a tendency to become more courageous as they fought.In the blink of an eye, the fire was reduced by half, and the remaining flames Bloodthirsty Vine did not ignore them, but directly came to cut off their wrists with a strong man, cut them all off from his body, and piled them up in front of him.
However, considering that there are only a few years left until the next change of the position of the master of the first hall, it is easy to understand.Having just advanced from a monster to a demon cultivator, the iron armed monkey s appearance was no different from that of a human cultivator.
I, Qingluan Pavilion, have a duty to kill the Lingfu Sect.How could they give up So the dozens of ghost eating flowers shook at the same time, and the color of the petals became brighter than before.
Qingyang also knew that this was what it should be, so he said I just said that this time I just happened to happen, and I will not stay in Jiuzhou Continent in the future.If she wanted to ask someone to rescue Master Shi Han, she had no other choice.
But Qingyang doesn t need it, because he has eight kinds of spiritual roots, and the bottleneck of Nascent Soul and above is not a problem for him.Now that the monks strength has been greatly suppressed, they are only a threat to the golden elixir monks, but not a big threat to the Yuanying monks.
She has been clearly confused by her own charm, but she can still question her.Now that the pollen confusion has no effect, she can only take risks and rush forward, using her own The poisonous needle threatens the black water dragon.
Hearing a loud bang, Qingyang was knocked to the ground and rolled several times before stopping.He s warming up. After hearing this, Feng Xi kicked Qin Wanyu in the butt, Do you want me to ask A Sheng to warm you up Hahaha, no, no, I m afraid that the heat will be gone if you just give it to me.
yes. Some people clearly meet the requirements and have everything ready, but in the end they can only waste their lives.The Giant Ghost King cannot retreat. He is about to die.
Seeing an old friend in trouble, it was really inappropriate not to take action.However, there are only less than a hundred people left in the Lingfu Sect, and most of them are low level monks.
If Qingyang was in the Huangquan water and encountered the Huangquan Winged Snake, which was more powerful than the Huangquan Silk Snake in all aspects, he would have been poisoned.People will die eventually. I cultivated to the Nascent Soul realm with poor qualifications and lived for nearly a thousand years.
He had to find a special place to put it. Finally, the One horned Ghost King placed it in the practice room deep in the mansion.He can persist until now and help them severely injure a Nascent Soul follower.
A life. As for the whereabouts of Guixia Zhenren, I am not sure.The five fierce ghosts in front were from What was released from the Soul Gathering Flag of the One Horned Ghost King could also be said to be the means of the One Horned Ghost King himself.
Of course, it s hard to say what the situation is. Maybe it s more serious than they imagined, maybe it s just a false alarm in the end.He never thought that there were other dangers in Wanfeng Mountain.
There are three main things left to do. One is to deal with the captured Blood Demon Sect monks, and the other is to clean up the remnants of the Blood Demon Sect.A golden elixir monk was so powerful. The third level Nascent Soul in the middle How powerful should a monk be As for the other side The One Horned Ghost King is relatively calm.
Zhu Yi and I The Demon King is here to support Xuanjia Demon King and Qingling Demon King.and then roughly judged the retreat location where I broke through to the realm of gods based on the news from my disciples, and then launched a sneak attack at the critical moment when I broke through.
He was already a disabled person. It was difficult to detect the abnormality of this dragon bone, and as a result, Qingyang was advantaged.If you only suffer a loss without taking advantage, anyone will be very angry.
With a loud noise, all the energy of the thunderstorm struck the beehive, and the beehive fell to the ground, creating a deep pit of four to five feet below.There were only four or five Golden Pill cultivators left, and there were even less Foundation Establishment cultivators and Qi Refining cultivators.
This is not the so called observation of words and colors in the secular world, but the ability of perception that has reached an extremely advanced level.Unless it s the last moment, it won t be used easily.
Apart from that, there are still unfulfilled intentions.He unfolded it, spread it gently on the ground, and said, Look at this passage.
Shi Shi smiled slightly and said in a neither humble nor arrogant manner Confidence is not Doubt naturally starts from oneself.This is really unreasonable. It would be fine if it were a barbaric land in this evergreen world where the Holy Cult has been cultivating for tens of thousands of years, where are there many accidental opportunities to be found Taking out an ancient Taoist sect to inherit Taoism is actually very convincing.
Feng Qing felt relieved. Although he said it vaguely, he did not refuse it outright.But it is usually light yellow the same color as the talisman paper, and slightly larger in size.
The entire Mahayana Sutra is no longer complete that is, the text that has been separated from the original text and has not been successfully reproduced has a total of 888 words.Gui Wujiu s eyes flashed with brilliance and he said What s the explanation Qin Menglin said This is the deduction skill in Yin and Yang Dao.
Gui Wujiu laughed, turned around suddenly, and ignored the two of them.He suddenly waved his hand, and the clone on one side immediately turned into a flower again.
It was not until two hundred years later that he truly came out of seclusion.If others are okay, if there is such a person among the unrelated allies who has reached the realm of perfection and has broken through the realm of perfection, and now the situation is reversed, it is not necessary to bow under the wings of Gui Wujiu.
After relying on it to get close, you can use some method.In terms of brightness, it is only slightly better than the full moon the shadow is one layer, but it is similar to a solar eclipse.
Of course, the actual methods described in the two classics, whether it is Previous Knowledge of Thirty Six Breaths or Zixu Gua , are not specific Taoist techniques like Ping Lun , and of course they will not be copied.As the space shrinks rapidly, the paddle wheel that originally only had a defensive function will eventually fill the area and burn to the enemy.
After careful comparison, there are similarities with Huang Xiyin s method.Qin Menglin s real sequence of each other means that after seeing the complete elixir, once you know the information about all the raw materials, you will immediately know the elixir method or after knowing the elixir method, you can immediately get a glimpse of the detailed prescription.
Perhaps they are just lucky. Even the leaders of Hami Mountain were not trained step by step from any elite descendants , but were the lucky ones who were finally born through the accumulation of countless low level cultivators who tried to break through.This kind of combination of precision and indulgence, independent of the calculation of virtual and real paths, is indeed an unprecedented level of sophistication in the world of Ziwei.
Even the reasons are exactly the same But Xu Muyin is still much smarter than Bei Yue back then.A four step talent is still far away from the list of people.
Perhaps what is obtained is only a fragmentary and incomplete text, which is unknown.Of course, his success is obvious and there is no sign of injury even if someone has wild ideas, they don t dare to act rashly.
But the two of them now have the upper hand, and there is still no gap in their joint efforts.Taoist Master Ying Yuan raised his head slightly, looked at Xuanmu, Hanzhen, Mingjun and the Jiekong Emperors in the other peaks, and said slowly You can leave from now on.
One of Fan Chang and Meng Jun would definitely get it.result. What really surprises Gui Wujiu is that the real body magic weapon has the same magical properties because Gui Wujiu has such a strong foundation and has mastered the great achievement of opening up the true flow in advance more importantly, in In all kinds of illusions, he has completely mastered or reached the Tao Realm level, so for him, there is no such thing as the last thing to come first.
Kong Wu and others thanked him together. Gui Wujiu added As for the pearl on this scroll
Back then, the Saint Ancestor of the Red Mei Tribe descended to the realm and borrowed the wonderful way of time to first strengthen the methods of protecting the forbidden formations of all tribes.In the past ten years, Long Two huge golden mountain phantoms, one on the left and one on the right, immediately attacked the Eight Peaks Formation of the Holy Cult s Ancestral Court.
Just saying this sentence is normal, but Gui Wujiu s calmness of spirit and calm demeanor are completely different from the past.But this is not the case the gradual change of this clone suddenly disappeared, but there was a sudden transient change.
The man in gray robe said Please. Mu Mu frowned and did not ask the person s name, but said Okay.As for this rainwater , it is a brilliant formation of the Yin and Yang Dao.
The place was still red, as if it had fallen into complete stillness.Strictly speaking, only half of it fell on Mo Tianqing.
And his true body is in that secret realm. you can leave the boundary at any time.Get acquainted and narrow the scope. This is because this Yin Yang Judging Domain formation naturally appeared in Qin Menglin s mind after he had attained the level of near dao realm, from condensation to divergence.
When the dragon clan faces a life and death threat, once this thing is used, the magical effect it presents is the most suitable one among the three hundred and sixty.It is okay to say that it is a treasure refined for him.
The middle aged man named Chi with long hair trailing the ground smiled slightly and said There are endless benefits in the ancestral domain.
Those who are not strong enough can only admit that they are unlucky.They also had some understanding of Yinfeng Gorge. As Master Gu Hong pointed out, that location was indeed more suitable for setting up a monk stronghold.
food in the mouth. Faced with this situation, Qingyang had already thought of a countermeasure.At the same time, he flashed , waved his right palm and slapped Qingyang on the head.
He has already prepared his momentum and has to take action.This strength had exceeded that of ordinary first level disciples of Foundation Establishment, even compared to second level Foundation Establishment monks.
Seeing Chen Biwang and others scanning around with their spiritual thoughts, as if they wanted to force out the Blood Demon Gu, Tao Youcheng laughed and said, Hahahaha, since I have planted the Blood Demon Gu, how can you force it out After being planted, The monks who have been poisoned by the blood demon Gu will be controlled by the person who planted the poison whether they are alive or dead.
Please also Fellow Taoists, please help to be witnesses, and don t admit defeat when the time comes.as for the onlookers in the yard, they can only listen carefully.
Lingshi mine is the most sought after among all the spiritual mines.Although there are many Mountain Rats, there are very few high level ones.
then settled the fee and returned to his residence.As for what is happening now, no one knows. There are a total of twenty minions in the village.
In order to delay time, he deliberately slowed down.It is the most cruel knockout competition. The winner advances and the loser is eliminated.
When he first came in, Jiao Chengxin was shocked by Qingyang s youth.However, Luo Chengqiu took the initiative to hand a ladder to both parties.
Some people have even begun to swallow pills to restore this true energy.Chen Biwang also had this intention, so the three of them walked out of Qingyang s tent and walked towards the area where the Demon Suppression Hall was located.
He is already nearly sixty years old this year. If he loses this competition, how will he have a chance in the future Therefore, Qingyang s secrets and his wealth of tens of thousands of spiritual stones became his life saving straw.The seventh level phantom spider is equivalent to the golden elixir stage monster.
After listening to Master Jade Hoe s words, everyone couldn t help but fell into deep thought.They were of low strength and could only survive in the cracks of the big families, and were often squeezed by those big forces.
Fatun Lingshu read through it carefully. The exercises for low level monsters to practice are indeed simple and easy to understand.They each used their body skills to float into the air, and at the same time used their magic weapons to attack the forest piercing beast.
This woman is too insidious, no, we can t drag it on like this, otherwise the Yuling Sect will make wedding clothes for others.Qingyang bent down and was about to dig up the purple striped fruit when suddenly there was a movement from behind.
No matter where the resources are used, the final effect is the same.It was really not worth the loss. But the matter has come to this, and regret is useless.
We all have to go in and have a look. Lu Feng nodded and said, When we get here, I m not willing to go in and have a look.Departure for two days. In fact, there is nothing to prepare.
She fluttered her wings and flew back again. Perhaps this attack angered the alcoholic Queen Bee.After I go back, I will go into seclusion and try to get rid of him before the trial in Chaos Demon Valley.
Of course, Qingyang s three star Clear Miasma Pill was not given for free.As soon as he finished speaking, that The one eyed dragon Leng Yu swung the gold painted fan in his hand and pointed it towards Cui Yuan s face opposite.
it is estimated that ordinary seventh level Qi refining monks are no match.The key is that this thing is extremely rare. Even if you have tens of thousands of spiritual stones, there is no place to exchange them.
After receiving the mission, Uncle Zhou did not rush up the mountain.Think about it, the two junior brothers who were killed and injured were both killed and injured by the living dead.
The forest piercing beast showed no fear at all. It let out two disdainful roars and stamped its feet to rush towards the five Golden Core cultivators.After the trial, the Demon Hunting Order is handed in, and the things each disciple gets in the Chaos Demon Valley will be evaluated.
It will be a long night and a lot of dreams. Let s go together.It looked very simple, but after careful inspection, it was obvious that it was imitated by human beings.
Otherwise, this session of the Chaos Demon Valley Trial would be a farce, and it would also be disrespectful in front of a bunch of juniors.The moment the two sides come into contact, , dozens of feather arrows were smashed into red powder all over the sky by the Three Yuan Sword Formation.
Different from other caves, the surroundings of this cave are very neatly decorated, giving it a unique feeling.
